What to do if someone is threatening you

It can be scary and stressful when someone is threatening you. It is important to know how to respond to threats and protect yourself. Learn about the steps you can take, how to report threats, and get help.

Types of threats

A threat is when someone says or shows they want to harm you or your property. These can include physical or emotional harm, damage to your belongings, insults, trying to frighten you, or abuse. There are different types of threats and ways to respond to them.

In-person threat happen when someone near you shows they want to cause harm.

Phoned threat is made on a call. Sometimes threats made over the phone can be “prank calls”. This is when someone is joking and the threat is not real. It is often best to treat it as real if you are unsure.

Electronic message threat is typically received through text message, social media, or email.

Hate crimes are threats that have to do with your race, religion, sexual orientation, national origin, or other identities. There has been a rise in hate crimes toward Asian Americans during the COVID-19 pandemic.

How to respond to a threat

What you should do depends on the type of threat and how serious the threat is.

If you are being threatened in person:

• Your safety is most important. Quickly look around and find a safe place to go. This could be a busy place with lots of people or a place you can hide.
• Stay calm. Avoid making eye contact or talking to the person threatening you. Keep neutral body language and run or back away quickly.
• Call 911 for immediate help.
• Ask for help from people that may be around you.
• Hide and try to block the way to you. Silence your phone.
• Try to note details about the event. Take photos or videos if it is safe to do so or ask someone near you to. If you do not know the person threatening you, look for things to help identify the person such as their age, sex, race, height, weight, hair and eye color, clothing, and anything else that stands out.
• Fight back only as a last resort when your life is in immediate danger.
• Report the threat to law enforcement.

If you are being threatened over the phone or by a message:

• Stay calm and don’t hang up the phone. Try to get more information about the person threatening you. Ask questions to help you know if the threat is real.
• Do not respond to messages, social media posts, or emails.
• Save information. Keep messages and note a phone number or email address. Take a screenshot of threats on social media. Record a phone call if possible or note what was specifically said.
• Report the threat to law enforcement.

If the threat relates to you being an immigrant:

• Use English in the situation if possible.
• Don’t feel the need to educate people about their misconceptions. People who are being racist or violent are not rational.
• Seek legal help if someone threatens to call immigration authorities on you and you fear deportation.
• Report hate crimes to the FBI.
• Contact civil rights organizations, especially if you are not comfortable talking to law enforcement.
• Learn about your rights as an immigrant.
• Reach out to members of your community. Talking about threats with others who have experienced similar things can help you figure out what to do.

If you witness someone being the victim of a threat:

• Speak out or record the threat if it is safe to do so.
• Call 911 if the victim of the threat is in immediate danger.
• Talk to the victim. Offer help and ask how you can support them. Listen to their wishes before taking any action.
• Offer to leave with the victim.
• Stay with the victim after the threat if they need further support.

Report a threat

You can report threats of harm to your local law enforcement or other organizations that offer help. You can also report threats to certain authorities depending on the location of the threat.